Behavioral Styles
Behavioral Styles
Take a look at the following matrix of behavioral styles. See where you fit in.
  Relator Thinker Director Socializer

Behavior Pattern

Open/
Indirect
Self-contained/
Inderect
Self-contained/
Direct
Open/
Direct
Performax Equivalent Steadiness Compliance Dominance Influencing of Others
Appearance

Casual
Conforming

Formal
Conservative

Businesslike
Functional

Fashionable
Stylish

Workspace

Personal
Relaxed
Friendly
Informal

Structured
Organized
Functional
Formal

Busy
Formal
Efficient
Structured

Stimulating
Personal
Cluttered
Friendly

Pace

Slow/Easy

Slow/
Systematic

Fast/
Decisive

Fast/
Spontaneous

Priority Maintaining
Relationships
The Task: The Process The Task: The Results Relationships
Interacting
Fears Confrontation Embarrassment Loss of
Control
Loss of
Prestige
Under Tension
Will
Submit/Acquiesce Withdraw/Avoid Dictate/Assert Attack/Be Sarcastic
Seeks Attention Accuracy Productivity Recognition
Needs to Know (Benefits) How it will affect their personal circumstances How they justify the purchase logically/how it works What it does/by when/what it costs How it enhances their status/who else uses it
Gains Security By Close Relationship Preperation Control Flexibility
Wants to Maintain Relationships Credibility Success Status
Support Their Feelings Thoughts Goals Ideas
Achieves Acceptance By

Conformity
Loyalty

Correctness
Thoroughness

Leadership
Competition

Playfulness
Stimulating-Environment
Likes You
To Be
Present Precise To The Point Stimulating
Wants To Be Liked Correct In Charge Admired
Irritated By

Insensitivity
Impatience

Suprises
Unpredictability
Inefficiency
Indecision
Boredome
Routine
Measures Personal Worth By

Compatibility with others

Depth of relationships

Precision
Accuracy
Activity

Results

Track record

Measurable progress

Acknowledgement
Recognition
Compliments

Decisions Are Considered Deliberate Decisive Spontaneous

 

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